Course Description

Over these eight classes, I'm going to teach you how to create connected & life giving relationships by using my favorite relational practices of boundaries, connection and communication!

What I think you'll see very quickly is that, though so many people do, you really don’t have to live with dysfunction in your relationships.

When we learn to implement these relational practices in ways that show value for others and ourselves, our heart-to-heart connections with those we love become healthy, vibrant, and life-giving!

Join me & lets not waste another day in an dysfunctional and unenjoyable relationship!

President of Loving on Purpose

Danny Silk

As an author and speaker, Danny Silk offers life-changing books, conferences, and other resources drawn from decades of experience as a counselor, social worker, advocate, pastor, spouse, parent, grandparent, and leader. Danny’s passion centers around helping people build, strengthen, and heal their vital relationships in life.

Course curriculum

  • 1

    Study Guide

    • DOWNLOAD THE GUIDE

  • 2

    001) Powerful People, Powerful Relationships

    • WELCOME!

    • INTRODUCTION

    • WATCH NOW

    • TAKE THE QUIZ

  • 3

    002) Turn Your Love On

    • INTRODUCTION

    • WATCH NOW

    • TAKE THE QUIZ

  • 4

    003) Exchanging Truth Inside

    • INTRODUCTION

    • WATCH NOW

    • TAKE THE QUIZ

  • 5

    004) Communicating in Conflict

    • INTRODUCTION

    • WATCH NOW

    • TAKE THE QUIZ

  • 6

    005) Levels of Intimacy

    • INTRODUCTION

    • WATCH NOW

    • TAKE THE QUIZ

  • 7

    006) Guidelines for Setting Limits

    • INTRODUCTION

    • WATCH NOW

    • TAKE THE QUIZ

  • 8

    007) Forgiveness from the Heart

    • INTRODUCTION

    • WATCH NOW

    • TAKE THE QUIZ

  • 9

    008) Did You Learn to Love?

    • INTRODUCTION

    • WATCH NOW

    • TAKE THE QUIZ

Reviews

5 star rating

Excellent resource

Maarit Harden

5 star rating

A Call to Live & Give Victorious Love

Andrea Ito

Back in 2014, I took Defining the Relationship course with my then long-distance boyfriend (now my husband!) and it resonated with us both on a deep level th...

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Back in 2014, I took Defining the Relationship course with my then long-distance boyfriend (now my husband!) and it resonated with us both on a deep level that to this day we are beyond grateful for because it changed our lives forever. It gave us an empowering and descriptive language to protect our connection and expertly chase away any shadow of fear that tried to creep its way into our love. We got married in mid-2015 and have had two beautiful daughters since. The life and love we've cultivated has become more and more rewarding and freedom inducing, almost to the point of fame. Before we knew it, couples older, younger and close in age to us started coming regularly for advice. It has been overwhelming and incredible. At only 2 and half years of being married, we knew this call to KYLO was a message we wanted to carry and share the rest of our lives. So naturally, as soon as I heard about Life Academy, I knew I had to dig again and dig deeper than ever before. I'm very happy to report that the Relationship 101 track did just that. It was clear and concise while remaining intimate and revealing. Of course, there was information I was familiar with being a student of KYLO but it was all shared from a new and intriguing perspective. It doesn't matter if you're coming into this class with very little knowledge about living a powerful life, or with an abundance of it, either way, you won't be disappointed. It's packed with life-giving material that will arm you well in the battle of living and loving victoriously!

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Life changing course!

Kimberly Moxley

The relationship core track is so powerful in its explanation and tools. So many helpful things I never learned growing up that I can now teach my children. ...

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The relationship core track is so powerful in its explanation and tools. So many helpful things I never learned growing up that I can now teach my children. Thank you for creating this course. It will change the way you relate to the people that mean the most to you.

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Exceptional

Neels Loftus

Thank you for teaching us to drive fear out and build strong, deep and loving covenant relationships. This course equips us to create culture and environment...

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Thank you for teaching us to drive fear out and build strong, deep and loving covenant relationships. This course equips us to create culture and environments where love reigns in our home and in the body of Christ.

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Truly an impact in my life

Deborah de Oliveira

I have been a pastor for the past 11 years and before that I was teacher. I am married to a wonderful man and we have two beautiful daughters. I have had a d...

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I have been a pastor for the past 11 years and before that I was teacher. I am married to a wonderful man and we have two beautiful daughters. I have had a devotional life of prayer and studying the scriptures. I have to say that upon reading KEEP YOUR LOVE ON and then taking the Relationship 101 class I feel I have been given an opportunity to love God, my family and others in a deeper way. The lessons were practical, the questions insightful and I see changes happening in me because of how this course has impacted me. Thank you. God bless you all! Here's to loving deeper and keeping our love on, always!

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This pinpoints right away the anatomy of relationships wi...

Nathania Drommond

Thank you so much, it's awesome and puts me on the right track to not keep trying but make a determination to be and choose whom I want to be! It helps with ...

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Thank you so much, it's awesome and puts me on the right track to not keep trying but make a determination to be and choose whom I want to be! It helps with redefining how I grew up, and how to not keep looking back with sadness, sorrow or anger or even dismiss my feelings. At the beginning of this year, I decided that I want to deal with procrastination. Every day I write down even if it's only 2 sentences how my day went on the journey so far. When I started I invited the Holy Spirit to help me on this journey. One of the opposite words of procrastination is to make up one's mind. It's that simple and that's exactly where I started. I am making progress, whether I see it or not (something I decree all the time). Adding another journey to the mix I thought about for a few days and then decided that it actually won't bite each other. When I look back, I definitely see that I'm not in the same place I used to be, especially when it "feels" like I am not going forward. So, I'm excited about this journey to continue and become a lover like Jesus, in John 13:1 it says that Jesus loved them unto the end.

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Feedback

Naomi Debus

Thanks for this cours, I really enjoyed it. I will take the time to recap all the lessons. I heard a lot I knew already but a lot of the topics were new ...

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Thanks for this cours, I really enjoyed it. I will take the time to recap all the lessons. I heard a lot I knew already but a lot of the topics were new for me. I think all those topics you can't learn from one day to another its a process and thats what I liked the most about this cours: That now I have an idea/ a guidance of how I can work on me and my relationships with God. Thanks a lot!

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Helped us communicate and love better!

Marilyn Atkins

Me, my mum and sister all decided to complete this course together. Over a 6 month period we completed the e-course sessions and found them provoking, insigh...

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Me, my mum and sister all decided to complete this course together. Over a 6 month period we completed the e-course sessions and found them provoking, insightful and helpful in assisting us to develop a stronger relational dynamic. As we like to make notes as we watch, there were occasions when the clips were quite quick, however we would use the pause button to assist with comprehension. In the future it would be helpful to have the clips slightly longer but with pauses to enable time to fully process the revelation of what was being said and to make notes. We have now enrolled on 101 leadership! Blessings The Atkins Family x

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Everyone in the World

Jennifer Hilley

KYLO book and Relationship 101 completely transformed my life. My husband and I have watched this series over and over. It really is for anyone that is in ...

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KYLO book and Relationship 101 completely transformed my life. My husband and I have watched this series over and over. It really is for anyone that is in any kind of relationship...not just married. This book is helpful for anyone in any relationship. It has helped me with every relationship in my life. I learned so much about myself and even though I said, "ouch" a ton Danny's humor lightened the blows. He is truly Relationally Annointed. Read the book. Watch the videos. Repeat. Repeat. Repeat.

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EVERYONE needs this course!

Janice Moore

Wow. Many if not most of us come from dysfunctional families. My soon to be ex and I both came from alcoholic homes. We brought the dysfunction of those c...

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Wow. Many if not most of us come from dysfunctional families. My soon to be ex and I both came from alcoholic homes. We brought the dysfunction of those communication styles into our marriage. This information was not available 34 years ago. We did not have the tools necessary that would have allowed us to turn back the clock and hit a restart button. The last counselor we saw said he thought it would take three to five years of meticulous, consistent, hard work to get our relationship on track. After six weeks of counseling, and seeing the lack of commitment to change in my spouse, as well as unethical choices and a lack of integrity on many levels, our counselor told me to seek legal counsel and to get out of the marriage. As I watch and apply the truths in these teachings to my life, I can see how knowing and applying them could have saved our marriage...but even more importantly, if we had them while in the stage of a serious friendship/relationship, I don't think we would have gotten married in the first place, because the commitment for growing a healthy relationship was not practiced and sustained during the relationship at the beginning. In my opinion, this course should be a working part of anyone's relational life who is preparing to marry. If used after saying, "I do," be willing to risk everything for healthy connection and marital reset. The tools are here. JMoore

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Tanya Yesmaniski

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Thanks Danny, your LOP course is a blessing in so many ways.

Francois Swanepoel

For me this LOP Relationship course have blessed me in so many ways and was a life changing experience. After a second divorce, I was searching for answers ...

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For me this LOP Relationship course have blessed me in so many ways and was a life changing experience. After a second divorce, I was searching for answers all over again. I got Clarity - What is wrong with me? Where did I go wrong? Am I that bad a husband? Was I missing something important? I received Healing - Despite my positive approach to life and crisis in general, I still was hurting and needed healing of my heart and trust. I am Inspired - I am excited about life and the relationships (all levels / types) I have the privilege to engage in every day. My biggest Thank you to Danny and his team for a course founded in God's truth, well structured, presented with love and passion, offers a wide application. "Everybody needs this like we need to breath", I tell everybody I know, every chance I get.

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Good overview of what the course is about

Judy Colabella

Excellent reference to scripture, guidance based on Jesus walk, work and love throughout the scriptures. Practical examples and ways to change, pray for ch...

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Excellent reference to scripture, guidance based on Jesus walk, work and love throughout the scriptures. Practical examples and ways to change, pray for change of my own heart. Encouragement for even the hardest to love - thank you!!

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Relationship Wisdom!

Jeremy or Sheri Struthers

Sometimes in life we can't see the rocks we are stumbling over! Thanks for highlighting those stumbling blocks! This course has brought healing and clarity...

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Sometimes in life we can't see the rocks we are stumbling over! Thanks for highlighting those stumbling blocks! This course has brought healing and clarity to my relationships and I look forward to gifting this wisdom to my kids! Thank you for bringing health to our legacy!

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Life Changing

Allison Rae

Wow!!!!!! What can I say. This course has taken me on a whole life transition. It’s called the relationship track but I have found it to really change me,...

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Wow!!!!!! What can I say. This course has taken me on a whole life transition. It’s called the relationship track but I have found it to really change me, never mind the relationships all around me. It has been very hard at times the journey but I would not change it for the world. I felt that God used it as one of his tools to break away self fortified walls I had built my whole life. I have had a catch phase for the last six months of my life and it is that I went through a breakdown to a breakthrough and now He is rebuilding me from the foundation up. What better tools could God provide than what is being taught through this track. I have also managed to get my (non Christian) husband to start watching and I can already see the positive. Thanks again. I personally think this program should be taught to every high school student or young adult so they can start life on the right foot with some awesome life tools already in their tool belt. 😍😍😍😍

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thinking about relationships in a new light

Manuel Röthlisberger

The concept of believing to be powerful or powerless and the behaviours that manifest from that belief (such as the Triangulation) was new to me and it chang...

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The concept of believing to be powerful or powerless and the behaviours that manifest from that belief (such as the Triangulation) was new to me and it changed the way I think. It made me more aware of relational dynamics and taught me how to respond to them.

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This course should be required... by law

Jeff Witty

You know those moments in life where you find yourself screaming, "Why didn't anyone teach me this stuff years ago?!?" Well, this course is one of those mome...

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You know those moments in life where you find yourself screaming, "Why didn't anyone teach me this stuff years ago?!?" Well, this course is one of those moments! This course is revolutionizing how I, my wife and I, my friends and I, etc "do" relationship... If I had learned this when I was 3 my entire life might be different and I would have avoided a whole lot of needless pain along the way. Overwhelming "Thank You!" to Danny and his team for putting this all out there. The classes are both short and rich--like a small, but hyper-dense piece of relationship cheesecake. Great little videos each week (I binge watched these things like 10 times now) and excellent reflection questions. Too many paradigm shifts to note here and so many times I finally found words to articulate some of the things we do naturally. Best condensed (but not shortcutted) course on relationships I've ever found! Love it!

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Love it

Steven Mulkey

I use this course personally and for the internship program that I run. So good.

I use this course personally and for the internship program that I run. So good.

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Amazing! Life Changing!

Stephanie Locklair

This course is a must for everyone. Our family of five went through the course together and it was so insightful. We all received amazing tools to connect w...

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This course is a must for everyone. Our family of five went through the course together and it was so insightful. We all received amazing tools to connect with one another and others in better ways. I have read through all of his books prior to this series and still learned so much. Thank you Danny Silk and team for an amazing course!!

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Good stuff

Lynn Schoolmeesters

Really practical. I learned so much about healthy patterns in relationships. Everyone should read this material!!

Really practical. I learned so much about healthy patterns in relationships. Everyone should read this material!!

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